Thinking this and doing this are two completely different things
How do I loose the attraction
Our baby is only 22 months old it seems just so unfair on her as well that she will have two parents seporated and will be living in different houses eventually unable to cover each others backs
Team work is and has to be better
I am feeling better in myself have to keep it in the day to day moment and not think too far ahead
Of COURSE it's unfair to the kids. Of COURSE it's not better.
But, in your wife's mind she is unhappy and you are the cause of it. Therefore, she believes that she needs to get away from you.
As we've said, chasing her will only push her away faster. Instead, you need to try to REATTRACT her.
And how do you re attract whilst distancing yourself
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.