Now's a good time to stop talking to her, her friends, and watching what you say around the kids. Be cheerful and stupid. Breathe. Post. Read. Pray. And let a few weeks tick by. On the cosmic clock that is NOTHING.
It's the equivalent to counting to 10 when you're upset.
And you're clearly upset. So relax and acclimate to your new reality before you make knee jerk reactions that will impact your family.