H has filed for D now, and sent me a message yesterday to tell me. He's filed on grounds of unreasonable behaviour, but is anxious to assure me that what is written on the petition isn't how he feels. I don't really know where he's at with things and if OW1 or another OW is on the scene.
I've decided it's time to move to after LRT, and I've drafted an email response to him. I don't normally post drafts, but I'd welcome feedback before I send. I've also decided it's time for a new persona on the forum and have jumbled my original letters around to become Sotto..
Dear H, thanks for your kind email. It's a sad development, and I'm sorry you feel the need to take this step. I'm confused by your comments and actions, but I respect your choice and I love you enough to let you go. I hope you find the peace and happiness you seek, and I wish you well.
Yes, I think it will sting to receive the paperwork & see everything in black and white, but I appreciate the heads up. I guess wishing you Happy Anniversary is a bad idea then??! (just teasing ...:-)) Do take care, and thank you for the many good times we shared.
Toots x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
