When is kindness enough?

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Yesterday I talked to my SIL.
She does not begin to comprehend her sister. She has come to the conclusion that my W is only happy where she is not and only happy with what she does not have.
Anyway, my W visited my SIL and over talks said several things:
- I have to live my life;
- I want to be happy;
- I want to find myself;
- Be careful, there is a time when you lose yourself and you will never find yourself again;
- It comes a point in life when you have to decide about your life, I am about to reach the 40’s, half of my life is gone and I have to live the other half;
- For once, I have to be selfish and think about myself.