You're right Asitis , I can't keep looking that much ahead because every time I do just depresses me more. Thank your for your words of encouragement and help. Everyone here empathizes Bc if similar circumstances and it helps me a lot .

Family and friends keep telling me to move on and forget about her, I'm trying


Me:35 W:30
7 years together
11 months married
No children
W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015
W filed for D: July 2015