Confrontation the "chase" to get him to be nice again we have lived in such turmoil so long it's what feels "normal" I think to be completely honest it's a power trip I can make him leave kids alone and ruin his day just like he does mine! Wow after I wrote that I look like a $hitty person! That makes me want to cry! My instant solution is to just say yes to everything but this does not solve the problem! This writing about me is making me realize why he doesn't want to come back I wouldn't either!