Sleeping Beauty and the Jedi

[mleigh4]

Hi Cali. Being an only child I have always wanted a big brother, so you're it! Oh wait, I'm older! Well, you do seem a bit wiser than me.....

Ok, so, I was hoping to switch the perception but I agree that you have some valid concerns. I will say, based on what you described, I have a strong suspicion that it was not so glamorous or even as often with OM as you may think. I have read from the vets that our imagination is much more colorful than the truth in these scenarios. Hopefully the sting will lesson for you with time.

As a woman, I will guess that she has extreme guilt along with the mixed in STD and is probably terrified and anxious to have sex again, especially with you because she loves you so much. Just my guess.

Give it time, keep working through it, the answers will come. You are doing an amazing job of working through issues.