I need a more positive less confrontational way to handle him going out all of the time! It's resentment not anger he is going out! This is a vicious cycle I cause! He says he is going out I start nagging about him being home with us he states he doesnt care doesn't need to spend time with me and that I have all the restrictions in place about him taking the kids so it's my fault! I will choose to break this cycle! Any good ways to handle this? He did ask if I had plans I said I'm not sure that's the truth!
