Hey Pigpen, yeh I was totally detached and went dark since June BD and now today after the letter, that was the last text I got from her. I'm not contacting her, nor do I think she will.
I just got home, she took a lot of our mutual things, but I won't ask for them back, the hardest is not having my cats of 5 years greeting me by the door when I come home that's hurting the most and the reality is here, all her clothes, items, are gone...after 7 years, I have to start over , she's gone..
Me:35 W:30 7 years together 11 months married No children W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015 W filed for D: July 2015