this idea that i was negligent towards the girls or that i would be an unfit parent. it's like the one thing that just destroys me.
my girls never even got a sunburn when i was watching them. we always had snacks at the park. they made new friends and socialized.
but she's saying she came home from work and found me drunk and the girls on the couch. she did come home once and i was drunk (from having been depressed over her) but the girls were at my parent's house. i would have never have done that otherwise. i don't even drink until 5pm.
this implication of me being a bad father, and her sitting there so coldly and looking so at ease, is just unbearable. she's picking up her phone and smiling at something. she wants to be bought out of her half of the house right away, etc.
who is this woman i married? how could me yelling at her (after a few days of being down) cause her to want to cut apart everything we have and everything we've built?
after a year of love and reconciliation. after our relationship finally becoming what it was always supposed to be?
Last edited by 714Dad; 08/11/1511:55 PM.
M36,W34 T18 years M9 years D3,D6 W "doesn't want to be married anymore"6/14/15 ILYBNILWY6/2015 W moves to parents house 6/30/15 W removes wedding band 7/3/15 My ring back on 8/8/15 Served 8/11/2015.