Best wishes to you, too! And there's something to just trying - it builds character, and you will always have that, with or without him.

Feel free to update here in my thread if you want.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17