Ok Job thanks-I need to stop fantasizing about venting to her. I think I am just looking for a place, any place, to expel my anger at her. Guess I will be cleaning my garage and re-reading the reconnection thread.

I am so thankful H is finally going out with a decent guy! It was so hard to see him hang out with bottom of the barrel guys. Plus this friend has a great personality--total golden retriever type! I hope he has fun and that the guy time moves him further away from the doldrums.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced