Its so hard to be nice to her, knowing what I know now. I still love her very much. I guess I'm caught between being tough and being nice. When I am tough on her she plays the I am mean card, when i am nice....she tries to take advantage it seems.
I know Sandi promotes "tough love" when dealing with WWs but it feels like more of the same.
And as far as my changes go....it seems to anger her more than anything. She really thinks I am being selfish....or so she says.
T14 M5 SD15,D8,S6,D3 "Not Happy" 12/11/14 EA discovered 2/11/15 MC started 2/17/15 MC "put on hold" 4/3/15 W IC started 4/5/15 PA admitted 5/7/15 WW moves out 5/8/15 WW gets her own place 7/15/15
