Seems like this is more about her making sure you stay put ya know?
Might be time to figure out some boundaries here .. something that works for you. I recall my W being all over this stuff at one point .. S's Dr appts, sports events, scheduling things out months in advance to make sure her and OM would have their set times, bills ... and just to make sure she had me close and could push buttons she would constantly bring this stuff up .. not just all at once, like trickle the info throughout the day
