We all go through that. If she's still attracted, just let her pursue you a bit. Be friendly, but you be the one to cut the conversation short because you have plans. If she asks, say that you are respecting her space and you would ask the same, but no that doesn't mean you are seeing someone.

And no initiating affection. None. I don't care how tempting. If she does, you decide whether you are comfortable with it, and don't be the one to try to prolong it. If anything, a quick squeeze and then you break it. You are trying to leave her wanting more.

And, on the contact, it's like addiction recovery: one day at a time. Good job on today. Now do it tomorrow.

Finallly, that GAL planning has to take priority for you right now. You need to start lifting that focus off her & turn it to you. The sooner you do it, the better for both of you.

Keep up the good work.


Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15