guess she's flipping out as the reality has finally hit her? So I haven't texted back and she texts:
Great. The landlord just called me and I had a mental breakdown on the phone. Embarrassing. Told her I'm moving out but you'll be here until the lease is up. She said ok.
I replied to that one, I'm sorry you went through that(shouldn't have texted I know)
Then she texts--Just please leave me alone. I want to be by myself. I will be happier. I need to focus on myself.
WTF she texts me, and then says don't contact me, I wasn't planning on it.
So one day of not going dark and she explodes, at least now I will continue my new journey and life knowing
In WAW land it is OK to contact you, but you contacting them, even in response is suffocation.
Just do what she is asking and go dark.
It is interesting that you thought she'd never contact you again. That lasted how many hours? She's told you what she's wanted, and now it is can you do that until she says the game is different.
If she starts the even more crazy, "why aren't you responding to me?" Just say, you asked me not to contact you again. I'm complying with your wishes. Please don't get on me when I do what you've asked.
Then back to dark or at least dim depending on what she does.
I doubt you've seen the end of the crazy and confusing. Just get off that ride for a bit. You can always climb back on later, but you need a break.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15