Do yourself a favor and read Sandis WW threads ... that EA is like a drug, and just like any druggie who gets caught .. they will say just what we want to hear but that pull to use is VERY strong ... They both got busted and are freaking out right now but I will tell you .. as time goes on this feeling will die off and things will return to a more level state .... I will bet this will repeat but they will be smarter about covering tracks this time ... maybe not have anything electronically ... heck they all but admitted they both would like to go for it ... contact between your W and OM is NOT a good idea, you busted the A for now ... why would you risk this??? For what ?? You have to make a stand here ... an a VERY STRONG ONE.
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We are both in agreement that my W and the OM cannot be friends...we can remain friendly and put up an appearance, but any harmless banter they had prior to the EA just cannot happen, whether it be around the house, social settings at work etc...Professional at work; cordial at home around friends/neighbours that's it...I'm willing to try this for a while,
How can you possibly control this^^^ ??? To me its like you caught a couple teens about ready to do it .. they both scrambled and put their pants back on ... stammered and stuttered and said what they needed to .... now you are going to leave the house with them both there and blindly 'trust' they will behave .... Ummm ... you might as well leave some condoms on the table.
