I've screwed things up so badly I am just not sure what else I should do at this point. I know, keep validating. Be detached. Yet he wants me to work on things... so confused.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?