Good 2nd session with Denise today. Stay the course, 180/Last Resort, and continued patience. Don't push anything along, no ultimatums, or confrontations. Also, working on me, recognizing what I did that contributed to the split, accepting those things and forgiving myself for those faults. GAL too. That's been fun, 2 friends have really picked me up and kept me out of the house.
And then, last night, after having what I thought was a nice and polite email convo with wife with lots of "thank you's" and "You are welcomes" on both sides, I was able to sleep a full 8 hours for the 1st time since it went down 5 weeks ago.
Patience and looking for glimmers of hope.
Me - Mid 40's W - Mid 40's Married 20 No kids BD - 7/2015 ILYB... Moved out 2 days later Suspect EA