Has the C told her that she doesn't get to "connect" with OM for closure?
Just my guess, but I think your W wants her ego soothed by hearing OM tell her how much he still wants her and how he had no choice but to stay with his family. At any rate, I wish the C would set her straight about it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
