She also made a point to ask me why all of a sudden I have been going out all of the time, she said she noticed the new cologne, new clothes, new sunglasses, new eyeglasses, the things i have done for my health.(lose weight, exercise. Etc)

And asked why I never did those things for her. I said that I understood how she felt but I should have done alot different when we were together. She said that she should have also but its too late now.

Man....i cant win

I know that I can be pretty verbally abusive when my wife doesnt take responsibility for her mistakes. It is a mechanism that I have, to try to elicit a response from her that never comes. Funny thing is...I am not that way with the kids. This is a problem I am working through in therapy, but obviously I am not better yet.

Last edited by HurtJef; 08/11/15 07:30 PM.
T14 M5
SD15,D8,S6,D3
"Not Happy" 12/11/14
EA discovered 2/11/15
MC started 2/17/15
MC "put on hold" 4/3/15
W IC started 4/5/15
PA admitted 5/7/15
WW moves out 5/8/15
WW gets her own place 7/15/15