This all sounds so backwards but makes so much sense at the same time! My fear is that if I get to the point that I am willing to be the WAS, will I ever want to R and put myself out there again?

I see how that dynamic works but it would be nice if the paths were to intersect at a different point so that both people were the "pursuer"?

In my case I think I have a WAW with a WW mentality, if that is possible? Everything from BD until recently has been all me, me, me from her end. Shows all of the signs of a WW but at the same time has no other interest in another man? Very confusing...


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home