This all sounds so backwards but makes so much sense at the same time! My fear is that if I get to the point that I am willing to be the WAS, will I ever want to R and put myself out there again?
I see how that dynamic works but it would be nice if the paths were to intersect at a different point so that both people were the "pursuer"?
In my case I think I have a WAW with a WW mentality, if that is possible? Everything from BD until recently has been all me, me, me from her end. Shows all of the signs of a WW but at the same time has no other interest in another man? Very confusing...
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home