FWIW, I really have stopped snooping. And I have lost the drive to do that, but it also feels like my heart is hard too. Sad.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?