New post (was MLC w/EA possible PA) and confused.

[kyrie]

When 2 become one, then I believe it is my business. Yes there are some boundaries, but we used to be so transparent.

I feel like I've let go of a lot of the anger. Even said that directly last night. Even let go of a lot of blame - I never put things in terms of that, as far as I can tell. "Judgement" - well, that might be trickier. Wrong is wrong period. But I don't throw it in his face either. Even directly said I don't want to hold anything against him or keep him cornered. I'm sure he still feels that way. Part of me wonders if I should directly state that I forgive him - "set him free".

I hear you about stop trying to fix the marriage. Yet he seems to want to work on it... or have me fix the things he wants me to fix. That part is somewhat nebulous. He wants me to meet his needs but doesn't want to work on that together. Its so confusing!