WAWs really don't like being told that you love them and will always love them. It feels like pursuit & reminds them that they are hurting you & that they don't feel this for you right now (or don't want to feel this).
They want to reassure themselves that you will be OK by reassuring you that you will find someone more suitable. Standard OP.
You can't tell them they didn't just give up, even when they did.
So, best thing you are doing is not responding. Just go dark and get on with your life as you are planning.
Glad it didn't sting as much. I know that I've prepped myself for a long time on the worst, but still find the sting when my W does or says things that move toward that scenario.
Hang in there.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
