Too angry right now

[asitis]

Pursuit. Checking up on her. Asking her whereabouts. Demanding or begging for an agreement to not see other people. Acting like her H (you should see yourself as a man who has an interest in your W as a potential R, starting w/ friendship & then as lovers), but forget stressing mutual obligations of the M. She's trying to run as hard as she can from that, and she will not react well to associating you w/ those strings.

The more pursuit & the more you seem like you aren't getting the message that you don't get that she is done (she's likely not, but that's how she feels right now), the more likely she will react with hostility and efforts to hurt you in order to get you to back off. One of those ways of hurting you is to grab OM. It also is a way to distract her from the pain of your sitch. The more tension she feels from you, the more attractive that distraction is going to look.