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[lonelee]

Guess who texted me first two days in a row ?
Guess who was cool as a cucumber? Who also prolonged her response time (Now I am always busy), responded with one liners, used validation and wasn't the last to respond??
Yep that’d be me!! 

Getting there slowly .. as it should be.

For Uphill you had asked a few days ago and to others reading this as well

the small changes I’ve noticed lately are

H is making the bed at his place… well at least whenever I’ve been there to see it.
(this is after I mentioned that I like the bed to be made as it is welcoming at the end of the day and he was always the last to rise).

He's begun to use the word sorry to me more often after he realizes that he's hurt my feelings about something that I have called him on or just in general using it appropriately.
(Back in April after BD I had mentioned in one of our talks that I had noticed that he doesn't use sorry very often).

And again recently H is Texting me first.
(H is more jovial in his texts now, flirty and more fun than he was at the beginning of all of this. He will txt more often and for quite a length of time before needing to stop. often I will try to stop sooner than he.)

Small things as I’ve said, but small changes at least which work towards better communication. I feel listening is happening and the willingness to talk about the little day to day things that we really hadn't been sharing when were living together.

I see these as positives, I am correct right? 

Lastly, two weeks ago H had asked me to go away with him and I was unavailable due to work and kind of relieved at the same time. Well he has asked me again for this weekend or next.. not sure how many times I can refuse this offer to spend more than just a few hours with him. He says he is not concerned about it where I did express my concerns. thoughts??