Help for LBH who has a WW (new thread)

[PigPen]

where you think the difference is in how to act w/ a WAW vs. a WW.

the WAW may have a legit reason for leaving, such as Vanilla. However, there are some women who just want out the M, and it's not b/c of anything really awful, and it's not b/c they are wayward.

I will throw in my .02 on what I see as part of this process.
The LBS detachs and works on self,
this action repeats over and over until the LBS
becomes the WAS.
At which point it is possible that the WAS/WWW/MLC'er becomes the LBS.
When this is pointed out of course everyone remains in DENIAL.

I still have the answer to how this happens printed in my house Cadet. You answered that for me a while back in a post and it was very profound.

Truth be told, this was months ago (lifetime in my DB process) and I thought you must be full of it at the time. (sorry) But now I see exactly what you're talking about.