To be honest the text didn't sting , I didn't expect a reply anyway and for almost 3 months now I've grieved the end of the marriage so this wasn't new.
Btw in the letter I said I'll always love her and to please take care of the cats like I know she'll do and she texted this just now after her initial text:--I didn't reply
I will take care of them. And please stop telling me you love me. I need to move on with my life. I need to focus on myself. I'm scared starting over but I know it is the right decision in the long run. I don't want you to think I just gave up. I let you know what I needed and you couldn't give it to me. I cried for months. Then I hit my breaking point when my future career was being impacted. I'm sorry things ended this way but you will find someone you are more compatible with in the future. I know this.
Me:35 W:30 7 years together 11 months married No children W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015 W filed for D: July 2015