Yes, that was my reading too.

I wouldn't trust her word on no further contact. You just keep working on those issues so that you are not going to repeat these problems in a future R, and if she does pop up after her anger has subsided enough, she may actually pay attention to the new AJ. Until she has gotten past that block though, nothing you do would have drawn her back in. Nothing. She was not interested in considering anything you did. She has a physical/emotional repulsion to you. But underneath that there is still love and affection. That comes through. Now she has to fight her battle. And you have your path ahead.

Sorry for you pain. I know you said you had no hopes and expectations, but I've been there too many times to know we always have some & it hurts when they are dashed.


Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15