where you think the difference is in how to act w/ a WAW vs. a WW.
the WAW may have a legit reason for leaving, such as Vanilla. However, there are some women who just want out the M, and it's not b/c of anything really awful, and it's not b/c they are wayward.
I will throw in my .02 on what I see as part of this process. The LBS detachs and works on self, this action repeats over and over until the LBS becomes the WAS. At which point it is possible that the WAS/WWW/MLC'er becomes the LBS. When this is pointed out of course everyone remains in DENIAL.
