have i been making mistaked too long. part 2

[tkdmme]

ok now im really venting.

She comes home every night drinks and smokes pot until she goes to bed. This has been going on for years. I have repeatedly asked her to stop and she has always ignored me. Her father died at 48 years old from liver damage. She doesn't even acknowledge that she may have a problem. Now im desperately fighting for an already messed up marriage. I don't know why I even care.