She does not have an OM that's technically active in her life, but there is an unattainable 'crush' that she is maintaining with a teacher of hers that lives in another country. She cheated on me with him when he was in town one night, which is what prompted me to separate. She claims it was physical, but non-sexual, but who knows. I grilled her about it for several hours and am fairly confident that she's telling the truth. Still devastating.
