One of the biggest things I've learned here is to stop worrying so much about the big picture. yes - I need to be prepared to survive if I leave my house or something. But I shouldn't worry about what I would feel IF she left, of IF we divorce or whatever. I barely know how I'll feel tomorrow, let alone in a few months!
So I worry about TODAY. What am I going to do for myself TODAY. How will I make today OK? Sometimes I may fail and have a down day...but then I worry about TOMORROW.
Do things for you to keep your PMA up. You'll cross those bridges later - and you'll be more prepared for them.
