That because I'm not fighting with her and getting into my corner if you will, she doesn't know what to do other than to get more and more upset and hope that that will bring me out to fight. then she will be justified in her decision to leave.
It's probably increasingly frustrating for her because she feels that's the way the interaction needs to take place and that even now she's having to do all the work in the relationship.
I have hope, but it's so thin and fragile. and when i see her or can't get my mind away from her it's just incapacitating.
a year of these feelings? maybe two? my God. i want the jawbone of an ass and i want to go into some "divorce is totally normal and happy tralalala" convention and go all old testament on them.
M36,W34 T18 years M9 years D3,D6 W "doesn't want to be married anymore"6/14/15 ILYBNILWY6/2015 W moves to parents house 6/30/15 W removes wedding band 7/3/15 My ring back on 8/8/15 Served 8/11/2015.