I had and at times still have financial fears. It is normal. Wait until your settlement happens so you will trully know. Dont borrow trouble from the future. I spent so much time being angry and fearful. It didnt change anything other than becoming severely depressed.

I learned to imagine a big Red Stop sign when those thoughts came to me.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden