Yes, I do. In my case it was because my WH wanted control in the sitch so things went his way. Once he sensed he was losing control then he seethed. He sensed I was making my own way, decisions, was growing developing then he spewed which escalated to ranting.

However being invalidating, excitable, etc made things even worse. I was button pushed for a long time, so calm cool collected firm and validating was the best option for me and I felt best with that.

You can measure different strategies by counting the spews and rants. The strategy that minimises or eliminates probably hasn't been invented yet. It is still in design and if it went into production, likely out of date.

Just do the best you can, this is WW issue. Try recording it and keep details in case it's needed.

Continue to detach, your doing just great.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 08/11/15 05:34 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW