My best friend who is a lawyer got a call from a lawyer about my wife. So I am pretty sure she went to see a lawyer. Hard to stay positive. she Baits me into an arguement. She has never wanted to work this out from day one. I did all the wrong things crying, begging and pleading. I have asked her to move out numerous times because I really believe that she will never come back to me until she leaves. I believe that there maybe issues with her EA. I told her today that obviously there was something wrong because if everything was fine she would be gone. She didn't say anything. I don't understand.... I lost my job and was unemployed for 18 months but I paid all the bills from my 401k. We survived it but once her dad died she flipped. I told her she is gonna regret her decisions one day and she told me that she would have to deal with it then. I do love her but she is making me hate her more and more everyday. Our kids d26 and d17 are so pissed at her. She is doing things to turn them against her.