It seems like my 180s (being calm, validating, being more open and affirming, etc.) seem to make her angry.
i'm not going to stop doing them because i want to be calm and nice to be around.
anyone have experience with this or an idea as to what it might mean?
it's really frustrating and confusing to validate and be yelled at for 'telling me how i feel.' or staying calm and being yelled at for being calm.
just wondering.
M36,W34 T18 years M9 years D3,D6 W "doesn't want to be married anymore"6/14/15 ILYBNILWY6/2015 W moves to parents house 6/30/15 W removes wedding band 7/3/15 My ring back on 8/8/15 Served 8/11/2015.
