Need advice for a WW who left Part 2

[dwh15]

So my 2 boys both came home tonight, again. WW offered S8 the chance to stay over, and he waffled back and forth a few times before deciding he wanted to come home. I know it must hurt her feelings every time that happens, which is pretty often. But I have a hard time feeling sorry for her. I'm always glad to have my boys come home to me, and part of me hopes that she's hurting. My relationship with all my boys has blossomed over the past few months and I can see a future where we are all going to be so close the rest of our lives. Unfortunately, I don't see the same for my WW, based on how things have been going. My S18 has lost most of his respect for her, and I wouldn't be surprised that the others start to feel the same as they get older and fully understand the circumstances. It's such a shame that a mother would choose a life with a man she barely knows over her 4 kids and a man who has stood by her side for 24 years. The consequences are going to be severe for all of us. I only hope that my boys are able to get by all this and not have it impact their own future relationships.