I like your new name Starsky. Vacation was pretty good, a little more rugged than I like, but it was a good time overall. I am trying to put the EA behind me, but I find myself saying snarky things sometimes. Part of me wants to bring it up and let her know how I felt about her friend. Then I tell myself why beat a dead horse? Who wants to be reminded of their mistakes, I certainly don't.
It has been a month since we went to W's IC and we have another appointment on Thursday. She is hesitant to bring me b/c she is embarrassed due to her drinking. The truth of the matter is that she is supposed to be going once a week and has not been able to/ I told her that I am not there to judge her and that it helps me to communicate with her better. I will bring it up in a couple of days.
This may be a stupid question, but what can you do to prevent another EA? Is it a matter of time? By working on better communication/support? By no means do I mean to imply all is well, I know there is a long road ahead. Just want some perspective on things.
