New marriage over pt3--filed for divorce

[dwh15]

She's shown nothing to give me hope even though three months is such a short time , I don't see her ever coming back and it hurts me

Yes, it hurts...terribly. But 3 months is a drop in the bucket for a sitch like this. Think I read recently that 9 months is about the quickest you can expect any kind of turnaround and the average is closer to almost 2 years, IF it happens at all. You need to focus on detachment, and yourself for now. The future is unknown, but don't expect anything to change for quite a while. It probably took years to get to this point, so expect it to take at least a few months to start digging out. One day at a time.