Back to feeling OK again this evening. The roller coaster is always in motion. WW has the usual 2 kids tonight: S18 and S8. Took them bowling and back to her place to visit. I fed them dinner before they left, as she has sent me a TM around 1pm asking if I would mind. It was actually nice to have an early heads up for a change, so I thanked her for that. On previous occasions, she would just sent a TM around 4 or 5pm saying they kids need to eat before they come, and have them here at 7. WTF? So at least she's being more considerate now. Seems like we're setting into a reasonable co-parenting routine for the most part. Still far from ideal, as S15 and S10 rarely spend time with mom, and the others only see her 3 nights/week for 3-4 hours each. But guess it's better than nothing, and I'm not sure my W is capable of more right now. Makes me sad.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.