I gotta give our C some kudos. Today she laid it out to my W, in the plainest language I've ever heard her use, that she has no chance of reconnecting with me as long as OM is in the picture in any way.
She also made it clear to my W that the abusive behavior had to stop or she was going to push me away for good.
Wish she would have done that sooner
Standing up and clapping hands here....
I am so so glad and relieved that this C is a tough cookie not taking any chit from W. That one's a keeper for sure!
No, I think C knows what she's doing and has timed all of this. Timing is everything, ya know. I think this was the perfect time to lay it all out on the table.
