I gotta give our C some kudos. Today she laid it out to my W, in the plainest language I've ever heard her use, that she has no chance of reconnecting with me as long as OM is in the picture in any way.

She also made it clear to my W that the abusive behavior had to stop or she was going to push me away for good.

Wish she would have done that sooner

Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood