Lost, alone, and in pain

[HurtHus]

So tonight W went out with two co-workers for one of their birthdays. She has texted me a few times while out and I have been lovingly detached. Replying every so often with a "hope you are having fun"type of reply. It is just so unsettling that I can't verify where she is or who she is with. This is the hard part of detaching. Both co-workers knew about the A and were "supportive" of W while everything was going on.

I'm not sure if I should just drink a STFU smoothie or find a way to address the relationship and how uncomfortable it makes me. At least W had her wedding ring on tonight when she left.