As far as the M goes .. and what it will actually look like. Yes I am concerned ... greatly. This SSM issue that we had prior, its just not something I want to deal with in M 2.0, and I am torn currently between being patient and allowing the process to just play itself out .... or taking a line straight out of SSM by MWD and just telling W this is not going to work out for me and going ahead and pulling the trigger.
This is screaming anxiety and impatience when viewed from the MLC prism, not the M prism. Make sense? Your W has just begun the process of reintegrating her individual parts that were torn asunder when the MLC fog hit her.
As you may have read from my old MLC threads, sex drive or interest in sex takes a nose dive within the M because of internal pressures from the marital house. As we slowly reintegrate parts of ourselves, we slowly re-join the human race by reconnecting with old friends, family, co-workers, then the spouse is the final piece in the process.
Cali, I know you are a man and have those needs. Unfortunately, you're going have to put it on the back burner for a little while as your W works through her issues. I am talking months here, buddy.
Sex and intimacy will have to take a number at the waiting line. I think you have come far in your personal journey to hear this here. What's a few months?
Timing is everything here...you well know by now how many times we've counseled you dig deep for patience.
