If you hadn't done an unofficial party for D then D would have been disappointed no doubt.
And WW might have said "nothing for D on her birthday?" Damn if you do, damn if you don't.
In this instance you were the loving dad and D came first, birthdays are mega important on the day especially to Ds. Parties are good but real birthdays have memories.
Spot on in my book, priority sorted.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW