Ok, well I'll try and ask a bit more specifically.

When my W wants to talk to me, do I just keep it light and get off the phone? Do I not agree to hang out with her and the kids? So far, she has not experienced any real loss from her choices. I also can't detach as easily if she keeps me in limbo, but if I don't reconnect with her, then there can't be R.

Help!

M 16y , T 18y , 3 Kids
7/14 ILYBINILWY
8/14 Takes off rings
5/15 OM, S
PA 8/15
10/15 A new hope. Rumbles of Reconciliation.
11/15 I can have what I want. What do I want?