Originally Posted By: tkdmme

Anyway, I calmly stated that she has full access to the account and that at any time she wants she can view it. She also has access to a spread sheet that I keep for organizing and paying the bills. She does not have to talk to me at all to find out our financial situation.
Any thoughts?

I actually love that response. Puts the burden back on her, and you don't get pulled into an argument. Well done.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.